Brahmachari

Eka brahmachari shatha markatah

…….3 ways of seeing this, all 3 are right

one brahmachari has energy of 100 monkeys

one brahmachari is as mischievous as  100 monkeys

one brahmachari has an intelligence equivalent to 100 monkeys

   promiscuity

There is lot in this word promiscuity,
it is unchaste

what is chaste? , what unchaste"

chastity is purity, anything less pure, is unchaste

brahman is the ultimate purity, remaining untouched , undeviating,

sole purpose to remain pure , to maintain purity ever

as long as we be no brahman, we are shudra, we are sinners
so we are born twice dvija , by being in association with brahman,

in the upanayana initiation

pathi vratha is chaste
rather to be chaste is pathi vratha 

who is pathi what vratha
pathi is brahman
vratha is to be cultivating to raise to eternal vigilance ,

awareness without a wink of sleep without slipping falling or sinking

pativratha dharma is not meant alone for sthree
it is a goal even for purush 

what is falling from being pathi vratha?

it is getting sullied polluted physically and mentally by that which is not right
that is how  purity is lost
by coming in contact with others mentally or physically

physical contact, shake hand, hug, kiss, brush , press, intercourse with all and sundry cause pollution, infection, dirt, disease, death

mental contacts, --debate discussion argument transaction , are pollution , also thinking on these transactions later , is major pollutions generating anger frustration, jealousy, hatred, sensual desire, fear, anxiety, stress, psycho diseases, abnormality and instability, ending up in mental disorder

the essence is ---spending our attention on anything than ourselves , that is brahman , is promiscuity, is sin, a loss, 

hence be with yourself physically, mentally, being in your own depths, playing with yourself , none other than yourself that is real chastity, real pathi vratha dharma.

more you go to outsiders , the more you are in promiscuity, physically, mentally.

live self sufficient , with own inner resources, they are infinite ,

the purest is brahman
the true source,  course,  recourse and goal all in one

    on the way to a hotel 

, in my first official tour,

--------1on the way to a hotel , in my first official tour, ----- in my early youth------i was taken by a taxi fellow to thru the streets where prostitutes were out at their doors, windows with their antics of skin exposure and sly smiles.

i saw like gautham [budha] what and how the life is and working

i learnt a lesson, never to look at naked figures, nor yield for distractions however attractive they may be

even to day , i am thankful for the pimp, the taxi driver and to my dear prostituting mothers and sisters for helping me, to go in the right way , quite early in life

and to be in st with such eligibility

2 earliest , in career , on getting confirmation as engineer, after apprenticeship, , we friends arranged a party in a hotel----''Three Aces'' --whose standard ad has been

''tonight and every night

rendezvous of the elite''

so we met there, we are ''elite'' you know?

well , it was first experience , for me , may not be for others

server with all ''courtesy'' served beer , music lilting was enchanting

i looked at it , some brownish, but smell not inviting , i kept aside

But all were sipping with great relish, with jokes to go with .

ok

now from the corner stepped out a barely clad female, with smiles, body curving, steps dancing to the rhythm of the song, hands making all kinds of twists turns stretches, lifts up down side ward fingers in peculiar posture

She was moving ''gracefully'' to every table and delicately extending welcome to the subtle advances the customers were gesticulating, some trying to touch her, some trying to insert currency notes in her bikini

Every one was enjoying the others “performance'' and eagerly waiting for their turn

it was 10 pm

i was told more show to come with band party readying themselves to come to the floor

but

Gotham in me , made me to get up , i just excused my self to the friends, and silently slowly walked out of the hotel

went home , slept a sound sleep , not worried bit about this great night shows

gain i felt , i am thankful to all for this early practical lessons in life

3 this when in college

the not so crowded que while slowly moving for darshan of great lord venkateshwara in tirupati,

i was pushed from behind by the breasts of a woman / girl, pretending to be getting pushed in the crowd,, there was enough space was there , and shy availed the opportunity to get pressed and may be she was starved for it , she did 2/3 times and with smile, she was looking beautiful, from good family

i tried to move away to keep a respectable gap , but still she was hungry persisting

balaji must have closed his eyes.

but i opened my eyes and quickly finished his holy darshan to avoid unholy sparshan and rushed away without looking back

without looking back still i am rushing away at every such encounters from any great mother /sister all along life, thanking god to helping me

now iam budha from gatham i graduated

all due to my encounters in life quite early in life

keechad se kamal

   beauty of character

1 a spiritual, a mother of two daughters , gave a wild powerful slap, uttered no word, when a guy in bus faulted, she flabbergasted all, 
guy hid his face, slipped out---

2 when a ''gentleman'' sitting behind was reaching the bottoms of a lady, in a bus, '' i said what are you doing'' he said '' sorry , by mistake''

i said '' do not repeat the mistake'' he got up changed his seat----

 

3 my point is sensible responses to happen.-----

but how many can one can counter? 
to counter, one has to be upright,

4 so character need to be built

5 thru character, i can close my eyes, if i cannot cover a bare body---

still better

6 akka mahadevi , says 
--brother, why my nudity should prick you?

this is the best message , i learnt, why not i be like a child,

when mother walks bare, like in episode of sathi anusooya[?], where 3 gods were turned in to babies

 

the quest continued , guru graced, 
every media, visual, movie, scenes., models galore have no effect on me , 
i always see god's best creation in all

lalithamba's laavanya in every female , gods great doll,

 

my emphasis is on building character in human male or female, 
not to succumb for petty tendencies,

missing the beauty of natures products with perception blurred, action faltered

 

Guru grace made me to see the real nakedness of beings, 
their barest existence, absolute, pure consciousness, 
the infinitely beautiful , 
all heavens beauty , apsara, devi devathas
--the beauty of physical shapes and bodies is because of it .

being is never the bare out side

    Brahm Charya, or celibacy, is believed to offer several benefits for life, according to ancient Indian philosophies and spiritual traditions. Some of these benefits include:

1. *Conservation of energy*: By abstaining from sexual activities, individuals can conserve their physical and mental energy, which can be channeled into spiritual growth, self-study, and personal development.

2. *Increased focus and discipline*: Practicing Brahm Charya is thought to help develop self-control, discipline, and focus, leading to greater productivity and achievement in various aspects of life.

3. *Spiritual growth*: Brahm Charya is considered essential for spiritual growth, as it allows individuals to redirect their energy toward self-realization, meditation, and connection with a higher power.

4. *Mental clarity and calmness*: This practice is believed to promote mental clarity, calmness, and inner peace, leading to better decision-making and emotional stability.

5. *Health benefits*: Some proponents of Brahm Charya claim that it can lead to improved physical and mental health, although these benefits can vary depending on individual circumstances.

These benefits are rooted in spiritual and philosophical traditions, and individual experiences may differ.

  Brahmacharya       

         Vivekananda on Brahma charya

1 "That power comes to him who observes unbroken Brahmacharya for a period of twelve years, with the sole object of realising God I have practiced that kind of Brahmacharya myself, and so a screen has been removed, as it were, from my brain."

2"The chaste brain has tremendous energy and gigantic will power. Without chastity there can be no spiritual strength. Continence gives wonderful control over mankind.The spiritual leaders of men have been very continent and this is what gave them power."

3"Every boy should be trained to practice absolute Brahmacharya and then, and then alone faith and Shraddha will come. Chastity in thought, word and deed always and in all conditions is what is called Brahmacharya. Unchaste imagination is as bad as unchaste action. The Brahmacharin must be pure in thought, word and deed."

4"In order to attain to ideal Brahmacharya one has in the beginning to observe strict rules regarding chastity. For minimum 12 years, one should keep oneself strictly aloof from the least association with the opposite sex as far as possible. When spiritual aspirants are established in the ideal of Sannyasa and brahmacharya, they will be able to mix on an equal footing with worldly men without any harm. But in the beginning 12 years, if they do not keep themselves within the barriers of strict rules, they will all go wrong."

5"Brahmacharya should be like a burning fire within the veins!"

6"Obedience to the Guru without questioning, and strict observance of Brahmacharya — this is the secret of success."

7"To be able to realize God, one must practise absolute continence. Sages like Sukadeva are examples of an urdhareta. (A man of unbroken and complete continence.) Their chastity was absolutely unbroken. There is another class, who previously have had discharges of semen but who later on have controlled them. A man controlling the seminal fluid for twelve years develops a special power. He grows a new inner nerve called the nerve of memory. Through that nerve he remembers all, he understands all

   

bBahmachari is a great manthra fffor me, always ..

eever since my early youth ......

it is all guru krupa ...being thankful to my guru.........

in the present trend of kaliyuga, .....with episodes of gender based crimes, illegal sex affairs, murders, suicides....all for petty sensual pleasures,

sri anjaneyam ,prasannanjaneyam, namasthe .. sadaa brahmachari .namasthe...namasthe..............................................................................................................guru shishya parampara is to pass on the technique of atmanubhuti , easily, instantly ie meditation , .

one becomes rishi

and thru sustained practice this atmanubhuti gets stabilized 24 hours,,,,,

one rises to maharishi, devarishi, brahmarshi, and enjoys a higher life in jeevanmukthi ..............

but but the purity of teaching gets lost in the parampara in course of time , sadhana becomes ineffective, .......

so the new aspirant should explore experience, discover and tread on the right path ....since there are several systems

i found TM is the best after exploring many